I reached out to Maria when I became a new leader and I was working so hard with long hours. I needed to work towards a better life-work balance so I would not burn out. I was experiencing anxiety when trying to perform and validate my self-worth. This was also affecting my family life. I was asking myself, how can I be an effective leader and also take care of my mental health?
When I started the program, my greatest problems were:
– self-defeating negative self-talk, wanting to overachieve
– experiencing male co-workers/peers undermining me as a female
– workaholic perception, trying to prove I was worthy, feeling I was not good enough
– being too nice and being there for everyone but not taking care of my own well-being
During the coaching program, I took a deep dive into self-discovery, understanding my behaviors and traits, as well as my strengths and weaknesses. I learned many skills and tools I can use with my employees and team: communication, clarity, organization, and action. I learned to work smarter, not harder and recognize that my work is my craft. I discovered that I have other passions in life and that my current career may not be the final one! I am looking forward to moving into new paths. I have built my confidence as a leader, as a person, realizing that I am enough!
I learned that our mind is very powerful and as I had negative self-talk, I learned to acknowledge those thoughts as they come and go and leave the room for the dreaming, the growth, the confidence. I have the power! I learned skills to reduce anxiety, recognize the behaviors that no longer serve me, and choose differently. I create space and make room for new ideas, growth, and self-care. What I have learned from Maria helps me cope and manage my workday with positivity and confidence, smile and joy! It is continuous work to be mindful and kind to myself. I have acknowledged different areas where I have great passions. I continue to study/practice those skills so I will be ready to manifest them into reality on a full-time basis when the time comes. I have a dream of leading a team of like-minded women, finding opportunities for self-growth, empowerment, and confidence!
I would definitely recommend this coaching program. Maria was right to the point and quick to shift me away from defeating behaviors. She was my cheerleader! A lot of challenges we think we are experiencing really root from our internal struggles. Learning how to manage the emotional aspects will lead to growth and fulfillment, so you can contribute to a better world!